Children's Health

Make the Most of Family Meals

The most important part of a holiday meal is not the turkey, the stuffing, or the homemade apple pie. It's not even the gifts you may exchange. What is it? Family. Sharing a meal with your family provides a valuable opportunity to strengthen bonds and create lasting memories. It's a time to reconnect and share what's going on in each other's lives. This is especially true during the holidays, when families come together to celebrate.

Photo of a family sitting around the table eating a holiday meal

The Health Benefits of Family Dinners

In addition to building a stronger family, studies show that time spent around the dinner table has significant payoffs for children's and teens' health. It can:

 

  • Improve their self-esteem

  • Increase their intake of fruits and vegetables so that they get the vitamins and minerals their growing bodies need

  • Teach them to enjoy a wider variety of foods

  • Reduce the risk for eating disorders, especially among adolescent girls

  • Lead to better grades in school

  • Make them less likely to smoke, drink, use drugs, or get into fights

 

Concerned that your children don't appreciate family time as much as you do? Rest assured that they see the benefits, too. In a survey of more than 900 adolescents, 63 percent said that eating together as a family is important, and 64 percent agreed that sharing meals brings their family closer together.

Four Tips for a Happy Meal

Teens and kids often have busy schedules, and finding time for an extended family meal can be challenging. That's why it's important to make the most of your time together during the holiday season. Here's how:

 

  • Turn off the TV during mealtime. Studies show having the television on while eating negates many of the benefits of a family meal.

  • Eat at the table. Talking to one another is easier when you're facing each other instead of sitting side by side at a counter.

  • Include everyone in conversations and keep it positive. Avoid nagging, complaining, or controlling discussions.

  • Ask everyone to turn off cell phones, smart phones, and other communication devices while at the table. Even if they don't answer it, the ringing alone can be a major distraction.

 

Healthy Holiday Eating Is Possible

With all the parties, holiday dinners, and visits to relatives during the holidays, it can be hard to eat smart. These tips can help your family enjoy the holidays without overindulging or sacrificing.

 

Hold the salt. Limit cured meat, such as ham and bacon, and foods packed in salty brine, like pickled vegetables and olives. Curb salty condiments, too, such as horseradish, ketchup, barbecue sauce, and those with monosodium glutamate (MSG). Instead, enhance foods with herbs, spices, lemon, lime, vinegar, and salt-free seasoning blends.

Overhaul your family recipes. Start a new family tradition by putting a healthier spin on too-rich recipes. A few quick and easy substitutions:

  • Replace cream with fat-free evaporated milk.

  • Cook soup stock with a small amount of turkey breast or skinless chicken thigh instead of neck bones.

  • Substitute fruits and veggies for some of the bread in your stuffing.

 

Online Resources

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American Academy of Family Physicians

CDC - Nutrition Topics

Nutrition.Gov

US Department of Agriculture (USDA)

December 2009

Strategies for Combating Holiday Overeating

Do the holidays put even your best healthy eating habits to the test? You're not alone. Between Thanksgiving and New Year's Day, many people add from five to 10 pounds. But with a little planning, your family can enjoy the foods of the season without tipping the scales. Here's how:

 

  • Avoid hunger. Don't skip meals in preparation for a holiday feast. Being famished often leads to overeating. Instead, eat a small, low-fat snack first.

  • Take small portions. Denying yourself will only lead to frustration. Use a smaller plate--your servings will look bigger.

  • Focus on family and friends, not food. It's hard to talk and eat at the same time.

  • Choose wisely. Go for lean meats, such as turkey. Load up on vegetables and fruits. Limit butter and high-fat salad dressings and gravies.

  • Avoid alcohol. Alcohol weakens willpower. And don't forget, it has calories, too.

  • Stick to your exercise routine. Take family walks after big holiday meals.

  • Delay dessert. If you wait a while, your craving for sweets may quiet down.

  • Stand away from the food. The closer you are, the more likely you are to nibble.

Online Medical Reviewer: Sylvia Byrd, RN, BSN, MBA
Online Medical Reviewer: Daphne Pierce-Smith, RN, MSN, FNP, CCRC
Last Annual Review Date: 11/15/2009